Posts Tagged ‘excuse’
Why are you so desparate to be a relationship?
Please excuse, I don’t mean to step on toes but I just wonder why so many women particularly, are so desparate to be in relationships? Some of you seem to jump on the first boat sailing and then complain about the cruise. What is the hurry?
I wonder what would happen if some of you took your time and really did a self purge to see what going on inside of yourselves. I think that many of you would see some things that do not equal happiness. But instead you want to cling on to someone.
Just being in a relationship does not validate you as a woman (person). There are too many garbage relationships out here. Many of you are willing to put up with anything just to keep that garbage going on too! Oh, please search your heart on this one.
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How do I tell a guy that I have known for 5 years, that I am in love with him?
He is one of my older sisters bestfriends. He dated one of her old bestfriends for about 5 years. That ship has long since sailed with him. A couple weeks back we fooled around, but we were drunk. So I am thinking that he must have some feelings for me ’cause when you’re drunk, the truth usually comes out. I asked a friend, but she says “you guys were drunk.” I have my own theory on drunk behavior and that is, you can control yourself. You damn well know yes from no, so being drunk is no excuse. We cuddle sometimes, but not kiss (I am pretty sure we both want to). I am so torn…What should I do?
Anybody here can give me advice about this behavior?
Ok, I meet this girl few months ago (and we just chat sporadically), later we ran to each other in a party, finally I had the guts to ask her for her ph num and invite her for a concert (she replied “of course, I’d love to go”), but she cancelled at last minute. Kind pissed but believing that she is a good girl to be friends, I ask her again to go out (dancing, dinning, sailing), but she always had an excuse. (BTW all the ph. conversation just last 2 min, she’s got a excuse to hung up quickly)
Why a woman gave her ph. num. accepts to go out, and after that cancel and create an excuses for any opportunity? Wasn’t better (and honest) just to let me know that she’s not interested in me at the beginning and don’t make me spent time and effort? Could be any other reason to behave like this?