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Should I leave my girlfriend or wait?
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I know this is a difficult question to answer, but i am gong to ask it in greatest detail to see what kind of responses you guys give.
I have been living with my girl-friend for about 4 years in a dinghy little Camper on my parents property. I’m only 19 and shes only 18 currently so we haven’t had the money just yet to buy our own place, and probably wont have it for a while since I’m currently attending college classes trying to qualify for my dream job.
There are a LOT of details involving what me and her have gone through in the past, including how we went across the country by train together, almost getting stranded 1000 miles from home… such as the several times me and her have split up, only to get back together just a few weeks later… such as the countless fights and arguments that litter our relationship… such as the fact that we lost our virginity to each other during the first few months of being together. The circumstantial stories would never end. But now our situation feels like its at end.
She hasn’t been to actual school the entire time we’ve been together, and she just took the test to get her GED a couple weeks ago. So this may let her start attending college with me… but this is really not the point. Ok, now for the real question, and what it pertains to.
After all we’ve been through, and after all we’ve said and done, I feel like she is not the sort of person that I would like to spend the rest of my life with. I don’t know if how she acts is just because shes young and immature, or if it’s just because how her (horrible) parents raised her. The only possible thing that could change how she acts (moving into a more comfortable home) probably isn’t going to happen for 6 months Her going to college might help, but I doubt she even passed the GED and we don’t have the results yet. I feel like I love her, but only because of everything we’ve gone through… not because of her looks or personality.
Does that means that “it’s over”? Should I leave her now and never look back regardless of the pain I’ll feel from being alone? Should I just deal with her ways until we’re in a better position? How long should I wait to see if she’ll change(perhaps mature)? Should we take a break until we can move into our own home, with jobs, and a better perspective on what its like to be apart? Is it even worth wasting more of the precious little time I have in life? Am I too young?
I know it might seem hilarious to write some sort of jackass response like “Your fucked” or “Maybe she should just suck your dick more” but please be fucking serious if your going to try and give me some advice. This is my life I’m pretty much laying out in the open for you guys to analyze.
Sincerely.
Romantic Restaurants in Atlanta?
Looking to take my girlfriend out for her 25th birthday on Dec. 5. Any ideas on nice romantic places. We have been to Ruth’s Chris, Chops, Pricci, and Canoe. Any ideas are welcome.
what special little thing does your boy/girlfriend or spouse do for you?
I don’t like waxy seeds so my b/f canoes them out from pickles for me. it cracks me up everytime but is super sweet.
these things are all great but not so much what I was going for. I was looking more for QUIRKY to see if mine was the only weird one.
Can anyone offer good fishing spots in Broward, Florida?
I have a Sevylor inflatable “dinghy” and was wondering if anyone knew of safe, fun, gator free waters to fish/cruise around with my girlfriend
Thanks
Which activities can I practice during the next World Social Forum in Bamako?
Me and my girlfriend will travel for two weeks in Bamako because it is the place where the World Social Forum is going to take place. We are committed, because It will give to poor countries an unprecedented opportunity to express themselves democratically and collectively, free from the political and institutional constraints imposed upon them by the great powers and the International Financial Institutions etc etc
My question is :
Do you know if there are possibilities to play tennis and golf? Isn’t it hot for the season? Can I borrow a catamaran or maybe a windsurf board? It would be nice if I can find a cheap instructor for beginners.
Do you know some good restaurants, pubs, discothèques?
Thank you very much for you answers and remember : El capitalismo no passara!!!!!